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Currently I am (still) trying to finish the manuscript for my first book which was to be available globally through Amazon in early 2013 (I unfortunately missed my self-imposed Nov 2012, Feb 2013, June 2013, Sept 2013, Dec 2013 and May 2014 release dates, it is painful to admit to that). The book is entitled, "Rolling the Dice: A different approach to finding a fulfilling relationship". When I decided to write the book, I also decided that once the book because available, that I would actually take my own advice and go out there and look (and it appears I have started earlier). I felt it was important that anyone who would buy the book should remember that they were not alone looking for someone to share life with. And in the book's description, I did use the terms "disheartening & depressing" when it comes to looking.

So, exactly who am I looking for and what do I want from a relationship? The following is actually from the book. There is a chapter entitled "I Declare . . ." which is designed to give a person a "very clear" vision of the person they want in their life & the type of relationship they truly want. I thought it was really important that the reader of the book saw an actual example of what the finished statement looked like, and that "I" actually put in the same time, thought, effort, & soul-searching that they did.

I Declare that:

I want a Heterosexual Woman who is legally, emotionally, and time available to come into my life so that we can have a relationship that is fulfilling for both of us.

It would be especially wonderful if she were tall, has a body with nice curves, and a good dance teacher.

It is important that we both truly value:
Peace of Mind
Unconditional Love
Relationship
Trust
Learning
Physical & Emotional Health
Real Friendship
Communication
Intimacy
Helping Others

And out of mutual respect for each other, we vow that we will not tolerate in our relationship:
Physical Abuse
Emotional Abuse
Smoking
Alcohol Abuse
Illegal Drugs
Infidelity
Compulsive Spending/financial irresponsibility
Compulsive Gambling
Profanity
Lack of physical & emotional affection

If you want the shorter & concise version, "I'm looking for a woman that I can see eye-to-eye with, figuratively & literally speaking".

If you want the "Politically Incorrect" version, "I'm looking for a Tall Chick".